Tuesday, December 1, 2015

Thanksgiving Trek to Missouri

Five years ago, I ate my Thanksgiving dinner cold, out of Ziploc bags. The view from the top of Black Balsam Knob was stunning, but I really hoped the bears couldn't smell the stuffing I had picked up at the Whole Foods in Asheville. I was backpacking the Art Loeb Trail alone, in my longstanding tradition of spending Thanksgiving in the great outdoors, eschewing the hostage situation that the holiday season represents to most people who live far from their hometowns and virtually all military families. For most of our lives, our parents hadn't been religious about holiday travel (I learned from the best that Thanksgiving "dinner" can be a turkey sandwich in the wilderness after all), and I certainly didn't intend to start.

Five years later found Seth and I spending the wee hours of the holiday at the mercy of crowded airports, early morning flights, long security lines, oversized suitcases, and a sick and cranky baby. The business of having babies shifts the paradigm more than a little, and we were making the holiday rounds this year. Not without protest. Finley and I feel roughly the same way about holiday travel:
Although one of us did get to sleep on the plane. Thank God for Seth, who is willing (and able) to wrestle a thrashing baby into cherubic, sleepy submission. When I fly with her alone, it's looks a lot like this.
Finley, who had been sick with a high fever, causing an eleventh-hour race to the doctor's office to find out whether we should cancel our trip, turned out to be a real trooper. She was under the weather for most of the trip, but charmed her way across the state of Missouri with minimal fuss and only a few temper tantrums. 
We at least partially credited this genius invention ("best $14 ever spent," as we affectionately refer to it) on the long drive to and from the Lake of the Ozarks.
We also benefited from the reinforcements provided by Ana & Ata, with whom Finley had a joyous reunion (reminding us just how much we missed having them down the road). They took her beer shopping
 and to the famous Versailles Christmas lights.
and she watched her share of football with Ata in the townhouse we had VRBO'ed on the lake. (Best. Plan. Ever.)
She did, however, sleep through the epic drive-thru Christmas lights in Laurie, as well as her walk to see the completely random exotic animal farm.
Missouri sure delivered on the weather: it was in the upper 30s and raining for virtually the entire trip. (After a beautiful, sunny Thanksgiving dinner on Thursday at Katie's, that is. Which Finley spent most of outside with Ana & Ata, trying to eat the landscaping rocks.) Poor Seth sat in a rainy ground blind for days without seeing a single deer, while I bundled up for balmy walks with Mom. This picture made me laugh.
But as with probably all of the families for whom I had felt sorry from my perch atop the Pisgah Ledge, we ended up feeling like the odyssey had been worth it. It was nostalgic and funny to see Finley crawl around with her second cousins, as we had done with the Walters cousins decades ago. It was indescribably special to see her point at the painting of the old man that's been above the Grans' fireplace for as long as I can remember, and show the Robinson side of the family her comes-by-it-honestly red-tinged hair. And of course it was wonderful to introduce Seth around, and spend time with aunts and uncles and cousins we hadn't seen in ages, and catch up on new babies and life changes and do a bit of reminiscing over pie.
That doesn't mean I won't insist that my own kids (I finally look and feel pregnant enough to think of that in the plural!) spend their fair share of Thanksgiving holidays eating turkey sandwiches around a campfire. But it does mean that we now understand why those security lines at the airport are so long this time of year, and we were definitely glad we had made the trek (and grateful to everyone who accommodated our whirlwind tour of the Ozarks!)

And, because we're on the topic of gratitude, we celebrated Seth's third "alive day" on Friday. It was very low key this year, but it's never far from our minds this time of year. Grateful, as always, doesn't begin to describe it, and we feel more so with each passing of November 27th.

We didn't take as many photos as we had intended, but snapped these photo of the week doozies. Finley's exuberant discovery of luggage carts,
and the devouring of one of Mom's famous cinnamon rolls.
 We hope everyone had a beautiful long weekend giving thanks, however celebrated.

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